E69 Letting Go of Why: Finding Healing Without Closure

Ever find yourself stuck on the question, “But why did they do that?!”

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, we’ve all been there—baffled, hurt, or just plain annoyed by the things people do. This week, we’re unpacking a powerful truth: your healing isn’t tied to getting an answer to “why.” In fact, as much as we want closure or explanations, sometimes the “why” is overrated (and, let’s be honest, probably not as satisfying as we hope).

Join Cosmo and Suzi as they draw from wise words by Matthias Barker (@matthiasbarker), personal experience, and biblical encouragement to reveal what real healing actually looks like. Spoiler alert: it’s found in loving, safe relationships—first with God, then with others who truly see you, hear you, and walk with you. We’ll talk about faith, forgiveness, how to process pain, and why sometimes God invites us to focus on what He wants to do IN us—not on unraveling someone else’s motives.

If you’ve ever wrestled with questions that don’t have neat answers or felt stuck waiting for someone to make things right, this episode is your invitation to experience God’s love in a whole new way. Let’s discover how Christian relationships, spiritual growth, and trusting God can move us from wounded to whole—no “why” required.

James 1:12..."Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him."