Consistency is Key

If you’ve spent any amount of time with us (IRL or virtually), you’ve probably caught on that we think that marriage should be a fun and life-giving relationship.

We definitely work hard, but we also spend time just being together, enjoying one another’s company. Honestly, we don’t do a whole lot of super adventurous things at the moment (#lifeishectic), but we do make time to connect, laugh, and talk when things are tough. 

Don’t get me wrong - “making time” does not mean hours upon hours of uninterrupted, meaningful conversations! Nor does it mean an elaborate weekly date night. 

Rather, we will often grab a few minutes on the couch to chat a bit or we’ll go for a 15-minute walk in the evening to debrief the day. We’re all about consistently making the most of small pockets of time. For us, consistency is key. 

What are some things you do consistently to stay connected? 

Try one of our ideas today:

• Set a timer for 7 minutes, sit on the couch, and chat!
• Go for a 15 minute walk outside in the fresh air.