E44 Don’t Try to Fix Them: Loving Your Others as God Made Them

Season #1

Ever feel tempted to “fix” a person you’re in relationship with?

In this week's episode, we’re continuing our seven-part series on relationship patterns that build strong couples. We dive into the fourth pattern that helps couples “make it”...

Pattern 4: They let each other be themselves. There was a base level of respect and admiration for each other rather than a desire to change each other. This Freedom brought out the best parts of each of them. (From Dr. Nicole LePera – @the.holistic.psychologist)

When two people try to change each other, it can lead to frustration and resentment. But what happens when you respect each other’s quirks, preferences, and differences? You build a foundation of trust, freedom, and real love. 

We get real about how allowing your partner to be who God created them to be can actually bring out the best in your relationship. With personal stories and Biblical insights, we explore how to cultivate a spirit of acceptance and admiration—even when your spouse’s interests or habits don’t match yours. Discover how to discern the difference between areas to lovingly address and quirks to embrace!

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this episode will help you honor God by honoring the unique person He’s placed in your life. Tune in and learn how letting go of control can transform your relationship into a place of freedom and joy.

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This is part 4 of our 7-part series based on Dr. Nicole LePera's (@the.holistic.psychologist) 7 Patterns in Couples Who "Made It." Previous episodes linked below: