E10 "None Shall Pass!" - Boundaries vs. Expectations
Did you know that you are the only person who can cross a boundary you have established?
There is a lot of confusion around what it means to set a boundary.
Can you cross my boundary? Nope.
Is my boundary for you? Nope.
Can you and I have an agreement (with consequences if broken)? Yep.
Are boundaries and expectations the same thing? Nope.
We're investigating another Instagram Reel again this week from Nick Pollard (@thepeopledispleaser) titled "Setting Boundaries with Other People is Impossible."
Listen in as we unpack these concepts:
- ✅ Why setting boundaries with other people is impossible
- ✅ What are boundaries and what aren't they?
- ✅ A formula from Nick Pollard's free PDF: When people {INSERT ACTION}, I feel {INSERT FEELING}, so when that happens, I will choose to {INSERT ACTION YOU WILL TAKE}
- ✅ How having a Christian worldview dictates universal boundaries
- ✅ How to handle convictions (aka personal boundaries)
We have mentored a number of couples and friends in relationship to boundaries. There are a lot of misconceptions about it, so in order to create and maintain healthy relationships, we need to dig in and get clear on this concept.
We've made a great start on today's episode!
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